Subject: A True Playa

One evening Mike went over to his friend Terry's house to play cards with some friends.
Mike sat directly across from Terry's wife.
Mike dropped a card on the floor and bent down to pick it up.
When he looked across the table he saw that Terry's wife had her legs open and no panties on. He sat up and was flushed.
He went into the kitchen to get a drink of water.
To his surprise Terry's wife had followed him into the kitchen and said "Did you like what you saw?" Mike said yes I did. She said, "Well you can get more than that but it will cost you $500." So Mike thought about this financial situation and said O.K. She said come here tomorrow at 2:30 because Terry will be at work then.
Mike said, "I'll see you then." The next day, Mike came over, they had sex, he paid her, then he left.
Later, Terry came home and asked, "Has Mike been over here today?
" She said, thinking she had been caught, "As a matter of fact, he did." Terry said, "Good because that fool came by my job this morning and asked to borrow $500 till this evening, and he said he would leave it with you."

NOW THAT'S A TRUE PLAYA!!!
YOU GOTTA "BIG MOUTH"

Ladies here's something we all love to do, GOSSIP. Especially about each other This is something that we do purposely. Ladies how often have we bad mouthed other women or laughed while others did the bad mouthing? Whether or not we join in the conversation or listen in silence, we are also to blame for not putting an end to it. Should we continue to use words as weapons to hurt For example:
1) She thinks she's all that, but she ain't
2) I can't believe he's with her
3) How the hell did she get him?
4) It should be me on his arm instead of her
5) I know she ain't wearing that dress
6) She's too dark for that
7) Check out girl friends weave
8) Now I know she didn't go blond
9) She needs to grow some hair
10)She is just jealous of me

Believe it or not these words actually hurt peoples feelings, and then we try and make the situation better by trying to clean it up with these statements:
1) I was only joking
2) But it's the truth
3) Everybody already knows it
4) She'll never find out about it
5) I'd say the same thing even if she was here
6) I wouldn't mind if someone said it about me
7) I did the same thing myself
8) We're friends, so she won't mind
9) I didn't actually say anything bad about her
10) I didn't mean any harm

Now you know you wrong if you can relate to any of these statements.
And as you know there's always a man involved in GOSSIP.

Ladies it's time we wake up and get with the program. When women Dis respect other women they damage the bond that holds use together. So come on ladies give up the GOSSIP, you played it out in high school, your to old for these childish games.

LOVING THE WRONG PERSON
Here's another problem we have.
Just when we have a problem with staying with our significant other although the respect has gone.
An equal balance of respect and love is the formula for an ideal relationship, but if I had to make a choice of which is more important I would choose respect over love any day. If someone respects you, they will appreciate your worth and treat you kindly. Too often people have declared LOVE for one another so soon, that possession, jealousy, and obsession start to play a role in the relationship. Many of you ladies have experienced mental, emotional, and sometimes physical abuse and when you are asked why you say ,Because I love him/her What's even better is when the abuser say's they do it out of love. Give me a break. People are more likely to abuse someone they feel superior to, someone they feel they own, but you can't own someone you respect as an individual, because respect gives you the feeling that someone is your equal. When someone respects you they honor your right as an individual to make your own decisions and have your own opinion and not give it to you. Ladies if you don't feel any of this, this means your mate does not respect you at all, and you have the right to leave or stay, it's up to you and don't let them tell you any different.

IS YA CITY OR STATE HOT?
10 CITIES THAT ARE SAID TO BE THE BEST FOR BLACK WOMEN!?

Ø ATLANTA
Ø BALTIMORE
Ø CHICAGO
Ø CLEVELAND
Ø DALLAS
Ø DETROIT
Ø MEMPHIS, TENN
Ø NORFOLK VA
Ø OAKLAND CALI.
Ø PHILADELPHIA

THE WAY THESE SPECIALISTS CAME UP WITH THIS WAS THROUGH THE WOMEN AND MEN IN THESE CITIES. WE WOULD LIKE YOUR OPINION. IF YOU LIVE IN ONE OF THESE CITIES TELL US, IS IT TRUE OR FALSE? IF IT’S TRUE TELL US WHY IT’S SO WONDERFUL FOR BLACK WOMEN. IF NOT, TELL US WHY NOT & PLEASE INCLUDE YOUR NAME AND E MAIL ADDRESS. YOUR COMMENT WILL BE SUBMITTED NEXT MONTH FOR OTHER VIEWERS OPINIONS AND COMMENTS.

Meat The deadly killer! Animals eating other animals with diseases that are cancerous!

When a cow is killed for food, only about half of the cow is eaten by us. The rest of the cow parts, such as the intestines, the head, hooves, horns, and blood are dumped into giant grinders for rendering plants! Rendering plants are plants that process over 40 billion pounds of dead animals per year! No animals is to "sick" or "diseased" for rendering plants, also this processing industry is a 2.4 billion dollar a year industry!

The city of Los Angeles sends about two hundred tons of euthanized dead cats and dogs to rendering plants every month! Rendering plants mix this gruesome combination of dead horses, dogs, cats, chickens, turkeys, blood and feces! These "dead diseased" animals are steamed cooked, the lighter fatty material floating on top is refined and used for cosmetics, lubricants, soaps, candles and waxes! The heavier protein material is dried and made into a brown powder: a quarter of this powder is used as an additive in most pet food as well as most livestock. Farmers call this brown powder made from dead diseased animals protein concentrates!!! In 1995 five million tons of process slaughterhouse leftovers were sold for animal feed in the United States!!! At least 75% or more of the ninety million beef cattle are given feed from rendered animal parts!!! Livestock operators commonly use animal excrement in feed because they have found a good way of disposing portions of the 1.6 million tons of livestock waste! Feces found in our meats cause E-coli bacteria and cause the death of about 9 thousand Americans a year: also about 80 percent of food poisoning comes from tainted meat!!!

Almost all meat in America is contaminated with man made carcinogens such as dioxins, which is a family of chemicals related to agent orange and DDT!!! Crops grown to feed cattle contain much more pesticides than crops grown from human consumption.

At least 80 percent of the pesticide used in America are used on specific crops such as corn, soybeans, cotton and wheat.

These four crops are the major feed for livestock, and as a result they store pesticides and toxic substances in their fat!

The animals get more concentrated doses of carcinogens when they eat other animals, and in turn we get more concentrated doses of carcinogens when we eat these animals!!!

This means that we run a very high risk of getting cancer and other related illnesses from toxic substances, pesticides and a host of chemicals fed to the animals!!!

Heart attacks are usually brought on by saturated fat and cholesterol, it works like this; saturated fat is converted by the liver into cholesterol!

This is what we know, saturated fat and cholesterol clogs our arteries causing arteriosclerosis (a major cause of heart disease)!!! Meat such as fish, poultry, beef and dairy products are the main cause of heart disease "artherosclerosis"! Antibiotics were given to cows in their feed to keep them from getting sick, however most of the time it didn't help.

The whole cattle operation would be sprayed with insecticides that would fall into the feed, water, trees, grass and crops! The cattle were also treated with insecticides for worms and insects. The insecticides would absorb through their skin to kill the fly eggs!!! The growth hormones that cause cancer in people are used to stimulate the animals' growth! This growth hormone is similar to steroids, that the muscle builders uses that causes them all kinds of physical problems! The growth hormones are added to the animals feed, injected and implanted in their hide with time released pellets! So the irony of this report is to realize meat eaters, that chicken, cow, pig, fish, and turkey; are probably contaminated with cancerous hormones.

Also antibiotics causes sickness, insecticides, toxic substances, saturated fat and cholesterol can also make you ill, including a fatal heart attack!!
REF. HOWARD F. LYMAN
PRESIDENT OF THE INTERNATIONAL VEGETARIAN UNION
NOTES "MAD COWBOY" by HOWARD F. LYMAN

YO WHATEVA HAPPENED TOO…?
1# Did they ever find out who killed O.J's wife and friend (lover)?
2# Did they find out who killed NOTORIOUS B.I.G and Tupac Shukar?
3# Whatever happened to finding Inus Cosby's killer?
4# Did they ever catch the guys who car jacked Michael Jordan's father and killed him?
5# Are those Michael Jackson's children for real? You can get all the operations in the world but the fact genetically remains the same! "BLACK" so what up wit dat? THESE ARE QUESTIONS YOU CAN HELP A SISTA OUT WIT'! A SISTA NEED TO KNOW. IF YOU KNOW THEN NOW I KNOW! Hit me Up:

"Here's A list of Black Female Authors You Should KNOW"

IF YOU HAVE NAMES TO ADD PLEASE HAVE THEIR FIRST & LAST NAME AND AT LEAST ONE BOOK THEY PUBLISHED FOR MY VIEWERS TO RESEARCH THEM!
Terry McMillan Author of the 1992 "Waiting to Exhale"

Tina McClory Ansa "Author of "Baby of the Family"

Dianne McKinney-Whetstone Author "Tempest Rising"

Breena Clarke "Author of "River Cross My Heart"

Edwidge Danticat "Author of "Breathe, Eyes, Memory"

HERE'S IS A LIST OF NAMES FOR YOUR LIBRARY

Connie Briscoe

Sheneska Jackson

Yolanda Joe

Rosalyn McMillan (commercial writer) Terry's sister

Dawn Turner Trice "Author of Only Twice I wish for Heaven"

Pearl Cleage "Author of What Looks Like Crazy on an Ordinary Day"

Toni Morrison

Bertrice Berry "Author of Redemption Song"

Alice Walker

THESE ARE STRONG BLACK WOMEN ROLE MODELS THAT WE NEED TO SUPPORT! Please fell free to give some women making it happen in the literary world! I would love to add them!

ALSO, THESE WOMEN ARE LARGE AND IN CHARGE, SO MAKE SURE YOU DON'T GET LEFT OUT.

PICK YOUR SELECTED ARTIST AND INDULGE YOURSELF! TRUST ME YOU WON'T REGRET IT!
Also, those sexy readers out there go pick up a book with that ice cream on a Friday night!

ARE U ADDICTED TO CAFFEINE? please read
STRIVE TO STAY HEALTHY NOW OR PAY A DEADLY PRICE LATER We will begin by talking about some things we eat and drink which have a negative effect on our bodies. Coffee, tea and soda all contain caffeine and many other acids which are very harmful to the body.LISTEN VERY CAREFULLY TO WHAT CAFFEINE IS AND WHAT IT DOES TO YOUR BODY.

Caffeine is a stimulant of your central nervous system; it is very similar to COCAINE in that many changes occur in the body. There is an increased heart rate, a change in blood vessels, irregular coronary circulation, increased blood pressure, birth defects, diabetes, kidney failure, gastric ulcers, cancer of the pancreas, better known as a gland near the stomach that helps the digestive fluid into the intestine. Caffeine stimulant also causes ringing in the ears, trembling of muscles, restlessness, disturbed sleep, gastrointestinal irritation, upsets the blood sugar level and forces the pancreas to secrete or discharge insulin Insulin is a hormone produced in the pancreas to regulate the physical and chemical processes in an organism by which protoplasm is produced, protoplasm, the living matter of all cells and tissues.We should also know that drinking coffee with food forces the food to leave the stomach too soon and slows down the movement of the intestines. Undigested food in a slowly functioning intestinal tract is a major cause of constipation. Finally you must realize this, coffee and tea is pure acid in the body; this means the more acid in the blood, the more the body will retain water to try to neutralize the acid in the body. This process adds weight to your body, so if you are trying to lose weight, GOOD LUCK. Is decaffeinated coffee or tea any better?Of Course Not! Decaffeinated coffee or tea is still acid-forming and it takes one cup of coffee or tea twenty-four hours to pass through your kidneys and urinary tract. REMEMBER! More than one cup of coffee or tea, caffeinated or decaffeinated puts an extremely heavy burden on your kidneys and urinary tract. Soda is also very harmful to your body; some doctors have shown that soda causes teeth erosion and makes the teeth soft as mush within two days. The only difference in regular and diet soda is that instead of sugar, a substitute is used, but it is so harmful that each container has to have a warning on the label just like cigarettes! Soda taken with food often leads to fermentation, meaning unrest or inflame instead of good digestion.NOW LISTEN TO THIS- PLEASE READ WITH AN OPEN MIND-YOU WILL UNDERSTAND: The process of refining sugar; every sign of life and nutrient is stripped from it, meaning all the vitamins and minerals are removed from sugar during its processing and the result is DEADLY. The plain truth is that sugar makes people fat because it supplies only empty, low-quality calories and excessive carbohydrates that are converted to fat. Remember, nutrients are needed for nourishing living organism, growth and replacement tissues. The sugar that the body needs is the untampered sugar in fruits which supplies the body with the nutrients it craves.

HOW ABOUT WINE OR ALCOHOL WITH MEALS:Your body needs no help to digest food. Digestion is very simple and takes place when the food is in the stomach. If anything, wine or alcohol retards the digestion of food. Realize that any alcohol beverages places a heavy burden on your kidneys and liver. However, if you choose to drink alcohol, the key to drinking is MODERATION.WHAT ABOUT MAN-MADE VITAMINS SUPPLEMENTS, YOU ASK:Man-made supplements are not what was intended for the human body because vitamin supplements become toxic in the body. The body can be most effective when vitamins and minerals are consumed along with all the other components of any given food. When vitamins are removed from food and isolated, they lose their value and as a result, become synthesize, meaning to form with other elements. It becomes virtually worthless. Every vitamin and mineral necessary for your body can be found in abundance in fruits and vegetables. Your body, believe it or not, has a small requirement for vitamins and minerals; even if you ate a small portion of fresh fruits and vegetables, you would meet your vitamin requirements. There is nothing in this world that meets the quality of nutrients that are found in fresh fruits and vegetables. In other words, there is no such thing as 100% natural.... Only God has done that!!

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